Installment four… been a while I know….
“But you’re different…”
Sometimes you meet a person who IS different. Someone there is a person that means a lot more to you than the normal person of the opposite sex that you encounter. This is more than even the person that you are in love with or in a relationship with. This might just be a special friend (not special like that but someone you can be close with). There are those people.
But guess what? Normally, no you’re not that person.
Don’t like being the person to bring the doom and gloom but I’m stepping in for my brother on this one (check his blog on my list to the right). If a person tells you this multiple times because
-there is someone issue that pops up constantly
-that person doesn’t have time to contact you
-they got frustrated and tired of your whining about the above issues
-they said it to explain hanging out with someone else
then usually you are not different. You are just one of five people in that person’s rotation.
I know, I know. There does exist that special person for everyone or at least that’s the theory. Unfortunately, it’s usually not you at that moment.
You’re not different.